Trace Stanton
Stay and Die
An action-packed true story about a 21-year-old American
working in Iran during the islamic revolution
and how he escaped.
An action-packed true story about a 21-year-old American
working in Iran during the islamic revolution
and how he escaped.
September 2025
History/Military/Aviation & Space
IngramSpark Publishing
I am writing this on the 45th anniversary of my “sudden departure” from Iran. I have been encouraged for many years by friends and family to write about this unique time in my life in Iran that forever changed me. The details here are represented to the best of my recollection (after 45 years). Some information was provided by security personnel at BHI & IIAA. All of the names have been changed to protect those who are still alive and the memories of those who aren’t. I have left many things out of these stories in order to keep this book family friendly.


After talking with people on both sides of this issue in Iran and the U.S. and doing historical research, I decided this was the best way I could summarize it.
It’s October 27, 1978. The revolution is gaining momentum at lightning speed. BHI/IIAA security came and rounded up those of us who were at the base and were staying in the hotel and put us on a bus. We were informed on the bus ride to our hotel that we would have 20 minutes to get everything we owned out of the hotel and on the bus before it would be burned. They had a credible threat against the hotel.
When we arrived at the hotel, there was mass panic, as could have been expected. The tiny elevators in the hotel were already jammed, so I ran up six flights of stairs to get to my room. The ex-military guys had packed a lot lighter than me and were already heading downstairs, and I struggled with two overseas suitcases, a guitar, a stereo, and other miscellaneous items. It was every man for himself. As I was waiting for the tiny elevator, I was thinking, I didn’t sign on for this crap! In my naivete, I was thinking, I’m an American, how can you get away with doing this to me? Where’s my armed escort from IIAA?
I was the last person to get out of the hotel, and as I took a quick look around, I saw that the locals were in the street laughing and pointing at us. I was feeling pretty helpless and burning up with rage as I boarded the bus. As we rapidly pulled away from the hotel, I’m thinking, I’m in bad shape, but as I looked around the bus, I was the only civilian on the bus. The rest were Vietnam vets, and most had seen more in a few years there than I would ever see in a lifetime. It was no consolation to me that they were freaking out too. Joe shouted out, “this is Bulls**t! This is worse than Vietnam, at least in Nam, I had a gun!”
Once we were safely away from the hotel, we asked the BHI rep where we were going. He said we were being taken to a safe and secure compound on the edge of town called Villa 3. We pulled up to a large, walled-in compound right on the edge of the desert. The gates were opened by Kurdish guards, and we pulled in and unloaded from the bus. Once we got inside, I saw that this place was quite large and had been built to house numerous people. It had a large living room and numerous bedrooms lined with single beds, a commercial-sized kitchen, and locker room-size showers. Once we got in and settled down to our new reality, we all moved into the living room area to see who was there.
Much to my amazement, there were people from multiple countries there: the UK, Philippines, etc. We all struck up a conversation so we could get to know one another. The gentlemen from the UK had just arrived and was going to be in charge of our commissary. He was an older man who had spent most of his life working on overseas contracts. Realizing the somber mood that we were all in, he started singing English folk songs and drinking songs, and he drank accordingly. It gave us a few laughs and lightened our spirits.

This is a great documentary on one man’s journey to Iran before the revolution. It squares well with the stories told to me by Persian friends who left at about that time.
The success of the revolution was a sad point in history. It saddens me that a country of such beautiful people, on their journey to prosperity, could be so easily overcome, in the name of religion, and turned into a hateful spreading cancer. It is a stark reminder of where many of today’s hatreds and destruction, at least in the Middle East, come from. My heart goes out to the Lebanese, Syrians, Palestinians, Israelis, Saudis, Yemenites, and others — who have either hated or have been hated upon — due to this extreme islamic evil.
MajorDudette

Great insight into the Islamic revolution from the unique perspective of a young man just starting his career. Gripping read as Trace Stanton goes from fledgling overseas aviation mechanic, evolving into his attempt to flee an increasingly hostile Iran as the Shah loses control of his monarchy.
AM Reno

I found the events powerful and the history of the area information. The most interesting thing to me was the difference in cultures and the authors ability to adapt. A good read, exciting exit.
Robert Gilmore

Really enjoyed the book. Story unfolds in a casual way and leads the reader to a suspenseful ending! Author gives a first-person account of what happened in Iran during the fall of the Shah, seen through the eyes of a 21-year-old on his first journey out of the United States. Things are much different when you’re out of the boundaries and safety of the of USA!
Amazon Customer

This an incredible story of a young man making critical choices under extreme adversity. A quick read, the author sets the stage for the stressful ending with his personal background and how he was living in the storm of the Iranian Islamic Revolution of 1978-1979. His thorough description of the culture and environment was rich and colorful. It made you feel like you were there. The author took chances before and during his overseas experience that would change his life. A true story. Wow! Highly recommend.
Smith

The author provides an excellent trip down history's path of unanticipated circumstances during a time that is slowly fading from memory by many. Anyone born after 1960 would benefit from learning the lessons the author experienced in this gripping story. A direct, to the point narrative that puts the reader on scene of what became one of most destructive regime changes in modern times. Their harrowing story and narrow escape is movie worthy material.
Mike O'Connor
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